Your life makes a turn for the best when you decide to stop living a life based on what you believe life should be/look like, specifically, and giving yourself over to God completely and allowing Him to orchestrate your path…to order your steps. Now I’m not saying to give up on your dreams, goals and visions. Be absolutely driven and determined to be “excellence”; however, always make sure that God is your ultimate leader within life. Be flexible with your expectations, surrender your heart’s desires to God and ask Him to guide you to where you really need to be in this season.

Isaiah 30:21 – “Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.”

Proverbs 1:5 – “let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance“.

Psalm 32:8 “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you”.

You are enough. God created you, and gave you EVERYTHING – your personality, features, hair texture, body type, etc. all for a reason. See you need all of those things in order to attract everything that God has in store for you within life. To fufill your purpose, you’ll need your personality, so you don’t have to front and pretend to be someone you’re not. Your spouse is going to be attracted to who God has created for you to be, so you don’t have to do things like go and chop half of your nose off, blow your lips up, and change your skin tone to get some one to be attacted to you. Whoever God has for you will love you just the way you are….the way you were created to be. Love yourself…. all of you…love all of you, and know that God did not make a mistake when forming you. Before you were formed in your mothers womb, God knew you and He approved of you. You are special, you are worthy, and you are so loved by God. The sooner you just be your true authentic self, the sooner you’ll start to attract the very things that God has for you.